Autism and Relationships: A Selection of Resources
- martine.ellis
- Feb 10
- 1 min read

Romantic relationships can be both exciting and challenging, regardless of the blend of neurotypes involved.
When one or both partners are autistic, differences in communication, sensory experiences, and social expectations can have a big impact on how the relationship develops.
To support autistic adults and their partners, we’ve gathered a few helpful resources. Whether you’re autistic yourself or in a relationship with an autistic person, these insights can help understanding and connection.
Articles
10 things you need to know about your autistic partner (Attwood and Garnett)
How to be the best partner to an autistic or neurotypical person (Attwood and Garnett)
Autistic Women in Couple Relationships (Attwood and Garnett)
Autism & asexuality (Embrace Autism)
Autism & relationships (Embrace Autism)
The AQ & relationship compatibility (Embrace Autism)
Guides
An Autistic Guide to Healthy Relationships (via Neurodiverse Connections)
Videos
Every relationship is unique, and there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. However, learning more about autistic experiences in relationships can help both partners feel more confident and understood. We hope these resources offer useful guidance; feel free to recommend others in the comments.
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